When I first stepped onto a coaching field, I thought success would be easy to measure: trophies, scorelines, championships. It didn’t take long to realize I was wrong.
The real victories—the ones that mattered most—weren’t the ones listed on a scoreboard.

1. Success Isn’t Always Measurable

Some of my proudest moments in coaching have nothing to do with winning. They’re about small, unseen victories: the shy child who found their voice; the struggling teenager who stayed after practice to help others; the player who learned to lead with kindness.
We may never see these on a leaderboard, but they’re the real signs of success.

2. The Person in Front of You Matters Most

As coaches, it’s easy to get wrapped up in planning sessions, managing games, and chasing results. But the deeper truth is this: every player, regardless of talent or background, is someone trusting you with their growth.
Coaching starts when we see—and honor—the person in front of us.

3. Winning Is a Byproduct of Belief

Ironically, when we shift focus from winning to connection, results often follow. Trust, belief, and empowerment create environments where players thrive naturally. Winning becomes a byproduct—not the goal.
And those victories feel very different. They’re shared, celebrated, and sustained.

Coaching gives us the rare opportunity to change lives—not just games.
The real question isn’t “How many games did we win?”
It’s “How many people did we lift?”

What’s your proudest coaching moment—and did it show up on a scoreboard?
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